- “It’s ok to be sad.”
- “This is really hard for you.”
- “I’m here with you.”
- “Tell me about it.”
- “I hear you.”
- “That was really scary/disappointing/upsetting/sad, etc.”
- “I will help you work it out.”
- “I’m listening.”
- “I hear that you need space. I want to be here for you. I’ll stay close so you can find me when you’re ready.”
- “It doesn’t feel fair.”